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"Her whole creative practice was built around risk"

I see yours this way too. Different risks, but you both are so determined, dedicated, and visionary. You hang out around grizzlies and write words that touch such taboo and tender places. Scarlet dances naked on the stage and shared her tremendously difficult journey with us all. You two were definitely contemporaries in so many ways. Love to you both!

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I appreciate you making this connection. We connected so much around love of music and dance. She also asked me to show her Grizzlies. I thought there would be more time for that to happen...

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Aug 11, 2022·edited Aug 11, 2022Liked by Robert E. Livingood

Great Stuff Rob, being an introverted nerd myself, I never really gravitated towards the raves/party scene here in the Koots. That being said, I always appreciated the unique burlesque culture Scarlet branded and the magnetic way she held herself on that stage. You are a very talented writer. Keep writing.

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Thanks so much, Rachael! Yes, Scarlet's burlesque really helped open up people to new forms of expression here. She was able to directly empower people to push beyond their comfort zone, get into their physicality, and shine. This community was so fortunate to receive the gift of her art. And also, thank you for the kind words regarding my writing. It feels really good to come back to this mode of expression!

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so so incredible

the honesty and love, celebration and honouring...

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Thank you! Scarlet soul was beautiful and she remains an inspiration.

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Aug 6, 2022Liked by Robert E. Livingood

Wow! Rob! What a beautiful heartfelt tribute to a sister! She was a remarkable woman and a trail blazer right until the end. A living wake with her beloveds. What a gift to have control of your own inevitable fate and to be so brave to face it head on and make the best of the worst scenario. A shining star….Shine on Scarlet❤️

Love you

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Thank you so much, Bridget. Yes, she was so remarkable and brave. Scarlet made such an impact on so many of us here in the Kootenays, both in her living, and in her passage. I'm continually blown away by what she inspired.

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Aug 3, 2022Liked by Robert E. Livingood

Oh brother this is beautiful. Tearing up and feeling it all. Thank you

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Hello my good man. I am happy this piece reached you. Thank you for receiving it. I know you have been going through your own grief process in recent days. I feel you out there and send you and your dear ones love.

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Scarlet is so incredible. Still. Such a trail blazer in every.single.area of her life! I was often intimidated by her for the first few years. She asked me to do these artist interviews at the Hubb, and I got so nervous. I don't regret, but I admire her courage and sense of freedom around people and the stage. What a true gift she was. I've never had an experience around someone passing like this. Thank you Scarlet! Thank you Rob for writing this. It's sooooo beautiful and vulnerable. xoxo

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Thank you for this! I hear you when you say you were intimidated. She really got in there and demanded people step into the limelight. It came so naturally to her. Part of her medicine was in helping others to find their place in the limelight. She had so much respect for you, and your art.

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Jun 15, 2022Liked by Robert E. Livingood

So moving and so beautiful as tears fall. Thank you for this doorway into Scarlet’s unbelievable way of being. What an amazing human and she is so missed and loved ❤️

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I am glad this piece reached you. It is good to see how Scarlet's heart and soul continues to reverberate outwards, still compelling hearts to swell and tears to fall.

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Jun 15, 2022Liked by Robert E. Livingood

What a beautiful honouring of dear Scarlet!! Thank you so much, Robert!! She is loved so very deeply...Forever. <3

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You are welcome! And thank you! There are so many stories of Scarlet Mary Rose - so many individual testimonies of how she impacted and inspired different people within the community. We were really lucky to have her light up our hearts.

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Jun 15, 2022Liked by Robert E. Livingood

so true! such an honour to know her! incredible to witness the trajectory of her inspiration and passion and courage ...and where it led her and so many... the whole community and beyond! <3 what an amazing inspiration, indeed!

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Yes-was thinking about this today - how she inspired so many to face their fears and really live fully in the present. And in her passing, again, she showed us how to face our fears of the ultimate unknown and die consciously, with purpose, in beauty, encircled by community.

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